The Importance of “Me Time” After a Breakup

spending time alone taught me ‘real’ love Most of us have experienced heartbreak, if not consider yourself lucky. It sucks when you build a bond, get to know all of these things about a person and then boom, relationship over. You feel sadness, anger, grief, you go through all the stages of a breakup which … Continue reading The Importance of “Me Time” After a Breakup

Breathing Life Into Dead Situations

Letting go is one of the hardest things to do, and years later you can still find yourself holding on to fragments of that relationship. In a past relationship I had to let go, I didn't want to hold on and then find myself questioning what I was holding on to. We had history but … Continue reading Breathing Life Into Dead Situations

#HurtBae: Putting Up With Cheating?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zjLR8293jnY Why is it that when a man cheats and a woman finds out the question becomes "why didn't you just leave?" The question should be "Why did he cheat to begin with?" Often times men get a pat on the back when they are young and can't commit. This video is saddening to watch, … Continue reading #HurtBae: Putting Up With Cheating?

The Pieces Have Fallen

The Pieces Have Fallen      Breyana I'jae The pieces have fallen Each time I attempt to stitch them back together I find that my hands won't move and my fingers won't cooperate. Yet again I'm the only one attempting to put them back together as if "together" never existed. As they hit the floor … Continue reading The Pieces Have Fallen

Would You Take The Risk on Love?

"To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly be broken." What's the riskiest thing you've ever done? If asked this question some people will say or think something sexual, some will think back to when they faced their biggest fears or climbed the highest … Continue reading Would You Take The Risk on Love?

Success Is Only In The Mind!

You Define Your Own Success breyanaijae.com Hey guys!  If you've been keeping up with keeping up then you know I self-published two books back in May, "Finding YOUrself: The Road to Self-Love & Discovery" and "Heartbreaks and Heartaches". The journey to get there was an eventful one and one I had to embark on to … Continue reading Success Is Only In The Mind!

Behind The Books

Welcome back, and Happy Wednesday! If you have been keeping up with my blog then you know about these mysterious books that I keep mentioning. Well these books are mysterious no longer. I am pleased and blessed to let you all know my first two self-published books are ready for pre-order! Now I know you're … Continue reading Behind The Books

I Lost Myself in You

  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W05qYP9sDBQ I lost myself in... The way your eyes sparkled when you laughed. In the way your voice resonated through my phone when you were miles away. In the way I could never stay mad. I lost myself in you. In your being. In your energy. In your radiation. Was I wrong to give … Continue reading I Lost Myself in You