The 30 Day $elf Care Challenge

Hey guys, welcome back to the blog. If you’ve been following my journey then you know just how important self-care and self-love are to me. It’s vital that we learn ourselves and better acquaint the person inside of the mirror. Practicing self-care and self-love allows you to identify your needs at a deeper level, what […]

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Breathing Life Into Dead Situations

Letting go is one of the hardest things to do, and years later you can still find yourself holding on to fragments of that relationship. In a past relationship I had to let go, I didn’t want to hold on and then find myself questioning what I was holding on to. We had history but […]

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The Ex Baggage

Hey guys welcome back to the blog! I recently posted about why women may be attracting damaged/broken men, but what if women are the ones who are broken in the relationship? Is it the same or is it different? For me, I never realized how broken I was after a break up until I attempted […]

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Finding Your Passion – Mid Week Motivation

Reflecting on the last few years and the many conversations I’ve had as of lately has brought me to a moment of clarity in regards to pursuing passions. In my own experiences, I’ve done many things, I’ve pursued many things. It’s hard when you have a lot of talents in the creative area or a […]

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Work Harder Wednesdays!

Hey guys and welcome back to the blog! Today is that mid week check point. A time to check in on those goals and to motivate yourself to go harder. I usually would like to highlight a person today that I see going hard but I’d like to switch it up and highlight my own […]

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#HurtBae: Putting Up With Cheating?

Why is it that when a man cheats and a woman finds out the question becomes “why didn’t you just leave?” The question should be “Why did he cheat to begin with?” Often times men get a pat on the back when they are young and can’t commit. This video is saddening to watch, while […]

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Woman to Woman: Is it Your Intuition or Insecurities?

Ladies, you know that feeling you get when something just isn’t right, a feeling that causes you to react almost immediately. You start your research, tell your girls to put on their investigator hats and go incognito mode? Yup, there’s nothing more powerful than a woman’s intuition. For many of us we’ve used our intuition […]

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Success Is Only In The Mind!

You Define Your Own Success breyanaijae.com Hey guys!  If you’ve been keeping up with keeping up then you know I self-published two books back in May, “Finding YOUrself: The Road to Self-Love & Discovery” and “Heartbreaks and Heartaches”. The journey to get there was an eventful one and one I had to embark on to […]

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Behind The Books

Welcome back, and Happy Wednesday! If you have been keeping up with my blog then you know about these mysterious books that I keep mentioning. Well these books are mysterious no longer. I am pleased and blessed to let you all know my first two self-published books are ready for pre-order! Now I know you’re […]

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I Lost Myself in You

  I lost myself in… The way your eyes sparkled when you laughed. In the way your voice resonated through my phone when you were miles away. In the way I could never stay mad. I lost myself in you. In your being. In your energy. In your radiation. Was I wrong to give you […]

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