spending time alone taught me ‘real’ love Most of us have experienced heartbreak, if not consider yourself lucky. It sucks when you build a bond, get to know all of these things about a person and then boom, relationship over. You feel sadness, anger, grief, you go through all the stages of a breakup which … Continue reading The Importance of “Me Time” After a Breakup
Is Dating an Independent Woman Out of The Equation for Men? I don't think it's a question of "can" when it comes to men and independent women, instead it's do men want to? Is there a difference between the way men treat independent and dependent women? In speaking to a woman I know she was … Continue reading Can Men Handle an Independent Woman?
Does the saying "you can't change people" ring true? Often times we hope our efforts change the way someone behaves, thinks, or acts in general. This happens a lot not only in intimate relationships, but personal relationships as well. I've been there before, hoping my words of encouragement brought someone out of a depressive mood, … Continue reading “I Thought I Could Change Them.”
Letting go is one of the hardest things to do, and years later you can still find yourself holding on to fragments of that relationship. In a past relationship I had to let go, I didn't want to hold on and then find myself questioning what I was holding on to. We had history but … Continue reading Breathing Life Into Dead Situations
Practicing self-love is not always an easy task. Some don't know how to love themselves or where to start. You first have to ask yourself, what does loving myself mean to me? It involves learning to accept and be brutally honest with who we are and who we have the potential to be. It requires … Continue reading What Self-Love Means: 15 Questions to Ask Yourself.
It's true that at some point in life we all envision how our lives will be. When I was young I wondered how I would look as a teenager, how high school would be, how I would turn out. As I got older I imagined when I would have kids, start a family, get married, … Continue reading Support During Pregnancy
Happy Sunday guys and welcome back to the blog. I usually try to refrain from speaking on celebrities much because people always tend to be too opinionated in their opinions as if they know the person personally. Well today, I'm making an exception. A few things have happened in the world of celebs that people … Continue reading Damned if You Do, Damned if You Don’t.
Hey guys welcome back to the blog! I recently posted about why women may be attracting damaged/broken men, but what if women are the ones who are broken in the relationship? Is it the same or is it different? For me, I never realized how broken I was after a break up until I attempted … Continue reading The Ex Baggage
I've had about three serious relationships throughout my life. As they ended I used to joke that I only attracted men with parental issues until my last relationship ended and I realized it was beginning to be a serious problem. It got to the point where I found myself questioning why this was. Was I … Continue reading Why Do You Attract The Damaged Ones?
breyanaijae.com Recently I came across a thread that went viral that I couldn't help but to comment on. A guy got on twitter discussing his recent encounter with his ex-girlfriend's fiance, the whole thread can be found on his twitter @SebastianCarson. Here's what he said: "So lil shawty I was talking to about 6 months … Continue reading #GrownAss2018
Given the fact that it's almost 2018 I think we all know what this "woman to woman" thing is about but for some reason it's becoming reality a lot as of lately. If not, let me give you a quick run down. "Hello, may I speak to Barbara?.. Barbara, this is Shirley" lol, but no, … Continue reading Woman To Woman?…Let’s Talk
breyanaijae.com Okay so I'm sure we all have seen or heard about Gucci and Keyshia Ka'oir's wedding right? If not just hop on social media and I'm sure you will automatically be filled in. First off congrats to them both. Last night a post surfaced on Instagram that I just so happened to come across … Continue reading The “Ride or Die” Mindset Must DIE!
breyanaijae.com Hey guys, Happy Friday welcome back to the blog! Today I wanted to chat about a pet peeve I have and that I know some of you have too. Have you ever received some advice or heard an opinion that you really didn't care for or had someone say something to you that just … Continue reading Let’s Talk – Unwanted Advice and Opinions.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zjLR8293jnY Why is it that when a man cheats and a woman finds out the question becomes "why didn't you just leave?" The question should be "Why did he cheat to begin with?" Often times men get a pat on the back when they are young and can't commit. This video is saddening to watch, … Continue reading #HurtBae: Putting Up With Cheating?
Is it true that what you won't do in a relationship another person will? Hell yeah, there are people waiting for a good man or women to enter their life so they can love and treat them properly. There are people who wish to give others a love they've never experienced. BUT... this "what you … Continue reading Relationship Talk: What You Won’t Do Another Person Will?