The Importance of “Me Time” After a Breakup

The Importance of “Me Time” After a Breakup

spending time alone taught me ‘real’ loveMost of us have experienced heartbreak, if not consider yourself lucky. It sucks when you build a bond, get to know all of these things about a person and then boom, relationship over. You feel sadness, anger, grief, you go through all the stages of a breakup which often [...]

Can Men Handle an Independent Woman?

Can Men Handle an Independent Woman?

Is Dating an Independent Woman Out of The Equation for Men? I don't think it's a question of "can" when it comes to men and independent women, instead it's do men want to? Is there a difference between the way men treat independent and dependent women? In speaking to a woman I know she was [...]

Men Are Only Born To Take Care of Me!

Men Are Only Born To Take Care of Me!

Happy Fridayyy. So let's get into this conversation real quick. I've had this topic on my brain for quite some time and things I come across just kept influencing me more and more to write about it. Let's start with this question.   Now that we got that out of the way we can move [...]

“I Thought I Could Change Them.”

“I Thought I Could Change Them.”

Does the saying "you can't change people" ring true? Often times we hope our efforts change the way someone behaves, thinks, or acts in general. This happens a lot not only in intimate relationships, but personal relationships as well. I've been there before, hoping my words of encouragement brought someone out of a depressive mood, [...]

Breathing Life Into Dead Situations

Breathing Life Into Dead Situations

Letting go is one of the hardest things to do, and years later you can still find yourself holding on to fragments of that relationship. In a past relationship I had to let go, I didn't want to hold on and then find myself questioning what I was holding on to. We had history but [...]

What Self-Love Means: 15 Questions to Ask Yourself.

What Self-Love Means: 15 Questions to Ask Yourself.

Practicing self-love is not always an easy task. Some don't know how to love themselves or where to start. You first have to ask yourself, what does loving myself mean to me? It involves learning to accept and be brutally honest with who we are and who we have the potential to be. It requires [...]

Damned if You Do, Damned if You Don’t.

Damned if You Do, Damned if You Don’t.

Happy Sunday guys and welcome back to the blog. I usually try to refrain from speaking on celebrities much because people always tend to be too opinionated in their opinions as if they know the person personally. Well today, I'm making an exception. A few things have happened in the world of celebs that people [...]

Why Do You Attract The Damaged Ones?

Why Do You Attract The Damaged Ones?

I've had about three serious relationships throughout my life. As they ended I used to joke that I only attracted men with parental issues until my last relationship ended and I realized it was beginning to be a serious problem. It got to the point where I found myself questioning why this was. Was I [...]

The “Ride or Die” Mindset Must DIE!

The “Ride or Die” Mindset Must DIE!

breyanaijae.com Okay so I'm sure we all have seen or heard about Gucci and Keyshia Ka'oir's wedding right? If not just hop on social media and I'm sure you will automatically be filled in. First off congrats to them both. Last night a post surfaced on Instagram that I just so happened to come across [...]

Let’s Talk – Unwanted Advice and Opinions.

Let’s Talk – Unwanted Advice and Opinions.

breyanaijae.com Hey guys, Happy Friday welcome back to the blog! Today I wanted to chat about a pet peeve I have and that I know some of you have too. Have you ever received some advice or heard an opinion that you really didn't care for or had someone say something to you that just [...]

#HurtBae: Putting Up With Cheating?

#HurtBae: Putting Up With Cheating?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zjLR8293jnY Why is it that when a man cheats and a woman finds out the question becomes "why didn't you just leave?" The question should be "Why did he cheat to begin with?" Often times men get a pat on the back when they are young and can't commit. This video is saddening to watch, [...]