#HurtBae: Putting Up With Cheating?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zjLR8293jnY Why is it that when a man cheats and a woman finds out the question becomes "why didn't you just leave?" The question should be "Why did he cheat to begin with?" Often times men get a pat on the back when they are young and can't commit. This video is saddening to watch, … Continue reading #HurtBae: Putting Up With Cheating?

Woman to Woman: Is it Your Intuition or Insecurities?

Ladies, you know that feeling you get when something just isn't right, a feeling that causes you to react almost immediately. You start your research, tell your girls to put on their investigator hats and go incognito mode? Yup, there's nothing more powerful than a woman's intuition. For many of us we've used our intuition … Continue reading Woman to Woman: Is it Your Intuition or Insecurities?

Would You Take The Risk on Love?

"To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly be broken." What's the riskiest thing you've ever done? If asked this question some people will say or think something sexual, some will think back to when they faced their biggest fears or climbed the highest … Continue reading Would You Take The Risk on Love?

Dear Men, is Hair Really That Important?

So I'm scrolling through Instagram a little while ago and came across this picture on my explore page. The guy who posted it expressed his sentiments saying the guy wasn't wrong in a nutshell and that although the woman has a right to do whatever she wants with her hair, making the decision without consulting … Continue reading Dear Men, is Hair Really That Important?

Do Titles Ruin Things? Let’s Talk!

Is an official label a big deal? Or am I overreacting? I recall having a conversation before about titles and whether they ruin or complicate things in relationships. More specifically, intimate/romantic ones. Personally, I think when titles don't come naturally that things are bound to get messy. You ever hear someone say they ruined their … Continue reading Do Titles Ruin Things? Let’s Talk!

CelebriTEA Sunday – “Guess Who”

Every time I turn around there's a male R&B artist who seems to ALWAYS be in the news. Can you guys guess who? This artist can never seem to catch a break and ever since his domestic violence case the media has set out to ruin everything he does. Now, there are many male artist … Continue reading CelebriTEA Sunday – “Guess Who”

Latex = Safe Sex for Your Body and Mind

“People love to talk about how to avoid STIs of the physical kind, but nobody likes to talk about the STIs that can destroy your mind.” - Daysha edewi This video embodies everything I have been talking about these past few months regarding sexual intercourse. Often times people don't look at the bigger picture of … Continue reading Latex = Safe Sex for Your Body and Mind

I Lost Myself in You

  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W05qYP9sDBQ I lost myself in... The way your eyes sparkled when you laughed. In the way your voice resonated through my phone when you were miles away. In the way I could never stay mad. I lost myself in you. In your being. In your energy. In your radiation. Was I wrong to give … Continue reading I Lost Myself in You